Emily Collingridge

Emily Collingridge (1981-2012) became ill at the age of six with mumps. She was diagnosed with Myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME) in 1996.

Life
Emily was just six when she became ill with ME. In 1996, though her health was greatly compromised and she was in a wheelchair and often bedridden, she started a job as PR and Fundraising Manager for the Association of Young People with ME (AYME). She then worked as a project adviser for several other charities.

Illness
Emily's teens were painfully restricted and her twenties destroyed by her disease. She suffered greatly and came close to dying on more than one occasion. Emily suffered greatly from sensory stimulation which left her with surging pain, on the verge of vomiting, struggling with each breath. She could not be touched to be washed, unable to raise her head and could not be raised from her bed. Emily could not look out a window, watch television or listen to music.

Although on a cocktail of medications, her suffering was incomprehensible. She suffered transient paralysis and at times she was blind and mute. Emotionally she was in fear of a medical crisis that would driver her to the hospital. Unsuitable hospital environments, with lights, sound and other stimulation and contributed to her relapse 2009/10.

Writing
Emily had periods of her ME remitting when she could also write. The Book Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living was written during one of these time periods. This book is for patients, caregivers, if your friends or relatives have ME or if you are just interested in severe ME. It is being sold at cost.

Death
Emily died of the side-effects of prescription pain killers she used to alleviate her pain.

Legacy
Charity PR had been Emily's career choice in school and when her disease remitted enough to campaign for ME she did so even though often is was from her bed. She worked for Home-Start. She wrote a guide book "Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living".

She wrote "Emily's Appeal". It is a history of her devastated life from a horrible disease and navigating an ignorant healthcare system. She wrote about the lack of research as being scandalous and the lack of necessary support for those who are suffering from ME.

Emily's Book: Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living
Synopsis: "This book provides help to patients with severe ME (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis) as well as the loved ones and professionals caring for them."

Media Covers Her Struggles After Her Death
The Guardian

ME is often dismissed – but sufferers like Emily Collingridge are dying "On Sunday 18 March, Emily Collingridge, a beautiful 30-year-old activist and author, died after she was apparently no longer able to struggle against the chronic illness that had afflicted her since she was six."

The Telegraph

Emily didn’t 'only’ have ME

"Exactly a month ago today, an inquest ruled that Emily Collingridge, an ME (Myalgic encephalomyelitis) sufferer, died from the side-effects of prescription drugs she was taking to alleviate her terrible pain."

Advocate Groups Report On Emily's Life and Death
ME Association

Emily Collingridge, 1981-2012: such a short life, such a huge legacy

"Emily Collingridge, who died in hospital on Sunday at the age of 30, had hardly lived – but she leaves a huge legacy.

It will endure in the form of ‘Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living’, the 140-page book which she researched and compiled when all the health odds were stacked against her. It’s been on the ME Association’s highly recommended list since it was first published two years ago."

ME/CFS Australia

Emily Rose Collingridge, 1981-2012

"Today I heard the very sad news that Emily Collingridge, the author of the book Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living, had died. She passed away in hospital last Sunday afternoon, after a long admission. She was 30 years old and had been bedridden since her late teens, during which she had worked in a voluntary capacity for AYME (Association of Young People with ME) and the family support charity, Home-Start. She did both of these jobs from her bed, but was forced to stop when she suffered a devastating relapse in 2005."

ME Awareness: Emily Collingridge’s appeal
"This article is an open letter by Emily Collingridge, who is best known as the author of Severe ME/CFS: A Guide to Living, a guide for patients and those involved in caring for them to the various aspects of life with severe ME. Emily has had ME for 24 years, since she was just six years old, and in the last few years has been bedridden and suffered numerous major health crises; she is probably one of the worst-affected people right now."